Let’s review a bit of John’s chart from the January 28th article. It is reported that in his recent Playboy interview… he was again… quite ‘eloquent’… in his unique way …with his description of his obsession with Jessica, and now his now ex-girlfriend.
To better understand his style of communication, let’s review the natal aspect of his Mercury at 21 degrees of Libra square to Mars at 25 degrees of Cancer… a standard astrology ‘cookbook’ definition from, Sakoian & Acker’s THE ASTROLOGER’S HANDBOOK,
“Mercury square Mars = …This aspect indicates a lack of tact and is unfavorable for public relations.” …and further, “Sometimes they are not able to express their ideas in a pleasing manner.”
…so, that’s just the way John talks …that’s how he’s wired (Mercury rules wiring, connections, communication… and Mars is hot, harsh, combative in style).
Now the fun and really interesting part, for the astrologer… is their charts together… a standard ‘synastry chart,’ that will tell us the nature of the attraction and their past relationship. Jessica was born July 10, 1980. Since I have no birth time I will use Noon for both of their charts, which still gives us the basic attraction and relationships aspects.
The first aspect that jumps up off the chart and smacks me… is the most powerful sexual attraction aspect there is in astrology… Venus conjunct Mars… His Venus [love]at 29 degrees of Virgo and Her Mars [sex] at 25 degrees… well within the eight degree orb allowance… from the textbook, Sakion & Acker’s, THE ASTROLOGY OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS, [brackets are mine]
“A’s Venus [John] Conjunct B’s Mars [Jessica] = This is perhaps the strongest single comparative aspect for sexual attraction…” however, there are other planets involved, “…If Venus and Mars are afflicted, sexual jealousy and possessiveness can be a problem.” …and they are afflicted …but not by other planets. When both were in a good mood together… the sex was great, with an easy supportive trine from their Pluto locations… which is the key to John’s obsession for Jessica… her Pluto (obsession) Conjuncts his Sun (John’s essence)… and if squares are involved, those are the obstacles…
Other aspects from the same reference book… like John’s Sun conjunct Jessica’s Pluto, “…Problems can arise from the Pluto person’s [Jessica] attempts to alter the Sun individual’s [John] modes of self expression.”
There are so many classic aspect definitions in this chart! …‘alter his modes of self expression?’ …yeah, right… Sorry, sweetheart… you and no other woman will ever alter his modes of self expression… that’s just the way he’s wired. And only he can change that… and only when he chooses to do so …and the reality …with all human beings …is that some models are more ‘user friendly’ than others.
Jessica has Venus at 16 degrees of fickle flirtatious Gemini in opposition to Neptune at 20 degrees of idealistic Sagittarius… A common problem that many women with this Venus/Neptune aspect have is that they often project much more into the relationship than is actually there, besides the great sex… it’s a classic example of emotional self delusion…
Eventually, the sex energy exhausts itself… and that is the moment when one or the other wakes up one day and looks at the other… and asks themselves, ‘who is this person? …and how did they get into my life?’ …the inevitable dissolusionment… and then she leaves him…
…and John still has the obsession …great sex is addictive …and he’s going through withdrawals. I pass no judgment, John and Jessica mirror parts of us all… they remind me of my youth, re-read the article of October 8th 2009… that relates my personal experience with the Venus conjunct to Mars and Pluto aspects…
Hopefully, they both will learn and grow from the experience… as many of us with our natal squares have… and do… in life’s, ‘School of Hard Knocks.’…class of, ‘Significant Others – 101’
…there are other aspects as well …but these few are enough to get the a fairly accurate picture of how it all came about…
…John, read the previous article about Roxxxy …she shares similar views about masturbation that you have expressed. But before you commit yourself… and shell out for the $7000 price tag… get the date of her manufacture that’s probably stamped on her main frame somewhere, or is somewhere in the warranty paper work… and consult a relationship astrologer… my rates are reasonable… or I can refer you to someone within the astrology community…
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Reference Books: FRANCES SAKOIAN & LOUIS ACKER BOOKS - http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_b?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=Frances+Sakoian+%26+Louis+Acker+astrology&x=15&y=21
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